STOP F*CKING BLOCKING YOUR MONEY: The Truth About Financial Stability

Ashlee Cox • October 21, 2025

Let's just be real, Script-Breaker,


You're a creative entrepreneur. 


You've got the vision, you've got the product, you've got the damn website. But the bank account looks like a desert.


You think the problem is your strategy


You think it's your website conversion rate, or your low social media engagement.


WRONG.


The hardest, most triggering truth I’ve had to face—and you know damn well you need to face it too—is this: Financial stability isn't a technique. It’s a reflection of your nervous system.


Believe it or not, if you’re failing, it’s because you are actively pushing the money away.


The Lie We Were Taught


I used to be you.


 I thought getting rich was just about launching a website, spending hours creating a beautiful product, and then adding a 'Buy Now' button.


 When that inevitably failed, I went into a shame spiral.


I did the research. I attended the webinars. I spent hours on YouTube looking for the one strategy, the one "secret" that would finally make the money stick. 


I thought, if I just hustle harder, if I just endure this struggle, I will be rewarded.


Because here is the toxic, loud narrative I grew up on: Money is the reward for suffering.


If it’s not hard work, you didn't deserve it.


If it came easily, you cheated.


If you're not constantly grinding and hustling, you are a SLACKER and you are UNWORTHY.


That belief system is a CAGE.


The Breakdown: Why Your System HATES Money


One night, after watching a really powerful video (shoutout to Coach Joe Hudson), I was journaling and the truth hit me like a shot of tequila: I didn't have a problem with money; I had a problem with ease and deservingness.


I realized my subconscious saw money as a villain in an unstable power dynamic.


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👑 Stop Pushing Away Your Money. Start Allowing The Flow.


I know the pain of trying to figure out financial stability and feeling as if I’m fighting against the world and…losing epically. 


It’s not about just making money, but it’s about feeling safe, supported and loved by yourself, without the heaviness of financial triggers keeping you in trauma.


The steps found in the rest of this post are what I had to do and am still doing to help regulate myself around financial safety and stability. 


If you want that too, I invite you to join me and the other script-breakers in the daily, practical habits to calm your nervous system and allow the abundance in.


If you’re ready to stop self-sabotaging and start training your body to be a safe container for money, join us on Patreon.


You cannot heal what you refuse to feel. You deserve ease. You deserve wealth. Stop reading strategy guides and start fixing your internal system.


  Join my Patreon today to read the full post, unlock even more members-only posts and finally give yourself permission to achieve success without sacrificing your sanity.


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