You're Not Broken. Your Dating Script Is
Dear Script-Breaker,
You know the feeling, don't you? It's the moment when the facade of the "Good Enough" life cracks.
It might happen as you sit across from a partner who is, by all reasonable standards, the unicorn.
He checks off the career box, the dog-lover box, the emotionally-available-on-paper box.
He's perfect.
But the moment you feel yourself shrinking, forcing a connection that isn't there, a chilling question hits you, is your checklist for love somehow flawed?
You followed the rules.
You did the work.
You created the list.
Yet, you feel betrayed by your own logic, always drawn back to the familiar, chaotic energy of the last heartbreak.
You swear you’re done with that "type," but somehow you end up on a date with the emotional clone of your ex, leaving you to wonder, how the hell did I end back up here?
That recurring pattern—that deep, unsettling feeling of reliving the same heartbreak in a new body—is exhausting.
It makes you feel like you're broken, like you’re the only one who can’t get this right.
The exhaustion comes from looking for a human bandage to fix you, to complete you, instead of recognizing that finding the right partner has nothing to do with who they are, and everything to do with who you are.
The Real Breakthrough: Breaking the Script
This cycle of confusion, self-sabotage, and frustration is your dating life stuck on a loop.
It’s the gap between the person you are and the best version of yourself you know you can be—the one who attracts genuine, effortless love.
The solution isn't another dating app or a longer checklist.
It’s a conscious, compassionate, and unscripted intervention that starts with you.
It requires trading the broken, inherited rules for your own authentic emotional blueprint.
It's time for the powerful, members-only clarity that will rewrite your story.
When you subscribe to my Patreon today, you get immediate access to these three core posts—the roadmap to finally breaking the cycle and stepping into your power:
What Happens When Your Checklist Betrays Your Heart?
The Transformation: You’ll learn to rewrite your own checklist, releasing the old ,dysfunctional, and borrowed one that was sabotaging your chances.
Discover the
4 intangible traits that actually matter, and learn to decode the
real plan your heart is following.
I Couldn’t Help But Wonder… Was He a Habit?
The Transformation: You’re ready to break free from your "Subconscious Script."
I'll show you the powerful
"Ridge in the Record" analogy and give you the three steps to finally start attracting healthy, aligned relationships instead of repeating past drama.
The Unscripted Truth About Finding the Right Partner
The Transformation: Shift your focus from "Who are they?" to "Who am I?"
Understand how unconscious fears lead to purposefully dating the wrong person.
Use your current dating patterns as a tool for accelerated personal growth, attracting a partner who truly aligns with your
best self.
Your best self—the one who makes conscious choices, breaks harmful patterns, and attracts genuine, lasting love—is waiting for you to hit 'Subscribe.'
Unlock All Posts & Start Rewriting Your Script on Patreon
Which post are you most excited to dive into first?
XOXO,
Ashlee
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