Exploring
The Praise Kink
You love being called a "Good Girl/Boy."
Discover the Praise Kink, a powerful psychological play that's more than just dirty talk.
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Ashlee Shares: Exploring The Praise Kink Details
This 42 page Kindle Edition Guide is a steamy and informative dive into the world of the Praise Kink, exploring the diverse uses of the kink safely and wonderfully.
About Exploring The Praise Kink
This form of Affirmation play appears to be one of those softer kinks that can be satisfied in a variety of situations- not only exclusive to the bedroom- and is one of the easier kinks to explore with a partner- or so I’ve learnt from my research over the internet.
Ashlee Shares goes deeply intimate as this kink is explored, revealing why it's gaining popularity, how to effectively use it and the differences in being The Giver and The Receiver!
This Guide Will:
- Demystify the Psychology: Understand how affirmation play acts as a subset of psychological play, and why words can be just as potent as touch.
- Explore the Nuances: Break down the complex line between a "kink" and a "fetish" and show you how to use praise for maximum consensual effect.
- Unpack the Dynamic: Learn how both the giver (usually Dominant) and the receiver (usually Submissive) can get off on the power exchange, and how using terms like "Good Girl" sets the mood and makes you feel like the sexiest woman in the world.
- Go Behind the Scenes: Get a personal look at my own experiences as both the giver and the receiver, giving you real-world context you won't find anywhere else.
Affirmation Play: The Gentle Kink That Sets the Bedroom Aflame
The praise kink falls under the category of psychological play which is exactly what it sounds like, involving emotions and the manipulation of those emotions.
“There are a lot of different kinds of kinks, and play in the world of sex and the praise kink falls under the category of psychological play, but is a serious 180 from the infamously known humiliation kinks.
Psychological play is exactly what it sounds like and it is play that involves emotions and the manipulation of those emotions.
This kind of play causes a submissive to have an emotional response and typically inspires cathartic emotions .
This can be done in a variety of ways, but we’re only going to focus on the differences between humiliation and praise kinks.” - excerpt taken from Ashlee Shares: Exploring The Praise Kink.
The praise kink like all kinks have those who enjoy receiving the praise and those who enjoy giving it.
Those who enjoy receiving the praise love feeling validated and seen by their partner as well as feeling special to them.
And those who enjoy giving the praise love making their partner feel good during sex by using pet-names, giving validation and overall coaxing pleasing behaviours during intercourse.
“The praise kink is about tapping into your partner’s need to be seen by you in that moment. It’s not even about the sex as I’m realizing, although if you do it right, that is exactly where you may end up, afterall kinks are things that provoke arousal.
Sharing your praise kink with your sexual partner is about creating a safe space and admitting to each other what you need from the other.
It’s sexy to know that you are with someone who sees you as an affirming, attractive and intelligent person. It’s beyond hot to know that you’re about to share energies with someone who is open, and willing to pleasure you in different forms.” - excerpt taken from Ashlee Shares: Exploring The Praise Kink.
Within the guide, I talk in depth about the difference between the giver and receiver of the kink, the differences between a kink and a fetish, more on how to enjoy the kink safely and of course share my own experiences with it.
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From Ashlee
You've heard the vague talk about the 'Praise Kink' and 'Affirmation Play.'
As your favorite author and journalist, I've done the deep, dirty work, going beyond simple compliments.
I've compiled a comprehensive, no-holds-barred guide into this book, Ashlee Shares: The Praise Kink.
This isn't theory—it’s practical, personal, and profoundly informative knowledge you deserve.
Why We Love It
- This book helps you understand that your desire for praise is a legitimate emotional security need. It teaches you how to articulate this need to your partner, transforming your pleasure into a healing, centering, and healthy experience—not just a fleeting moment.
- Incorporating aftercare into any intimate setting helps both partners feel centered and safe. This guide provides the blueprint for processing feelings and reinforcing safety and trust, ultimately revolutionizing the emotional connection in your partnership.
- You will learn the mechanics of using affirmation to deepen the emotional connection, making your pleasure more intense and deliberate. It empowers you to be an active, confident participant in your own sexual satisfaction.
