Stop Downplaying Your Need for Praise & Let Your Desires Free
A Shame-Free Guide to Understanding the Power of Verbal Intimacy
If youre ready to understand and explore this kink, this is where you start.
Ashlee Shares: the Praise Kink is a guide that provides practical steps, language, and real-world insight into the praise kink, including the distinction between tose who enjoy receiving and giving the praise .
IF THIS FEELS LIKE YOU…
You're wondering why these simple words “Good girl.” “Good boy.” feel so powerful… so consuming… So right?
Well, there’s a reason for that and once you understand it, everything changes.
You’ve realized you crave praise…
You feel turned on by validation, attention, and approval… and now you're noticing that...
- You feel a deep, almost overwhelming warmth when someone praises you,
- You crave affirmation that goes beyond a simple “good job”,
- Certain words can instantly shift your mood, your body, and your desire.
That pull you're feeling isn't random, it’s not “too much,” and it’s definitely not something to be ashamed of.
You're just discovering something deeply personal…
the power of praise as intimacy.
But you’re unsure if it’s normal
For many people, this realization comes with questions:
- Why do I need this so much?
- Is this normal?
- How do I even explain this to someone else?
- What if I’m misunderstood?
And this makes you:
Stay quiet, push the urges down and try to ignore it ...
But the desire doesn’t go away, because it’s not just desire—it’s emotional connection, validation, and intimacy all wrapped into one.
This guide gives you a private, safe way to explore it
Ashlee Shares: the Praise Kink guide isn’t about labels.
It’s about
understanding yourself
on a deeper level and this guide will take you out of confusion and into clarity.
It is not clinical, it's not cold and it's definitely not judgmental.
Its just an honest, human exploration of:
- Why words can feel as powerful as touch
- Why affirmation creates emotional and physical response
- Why this dynamic is becoming one of the most desired forms of connection
Become confidence in your desires
Inside this guide, you’ll learn how to:
- Understand the psychology behind your desire
- Separate shame from truth
- Explore your role as the giver, the receiver—or both
- Use language intentionally to deepen connection
- Communicate your needs without awkwardness or fear
- Create safe, consensual, emotionally rich experiences
What starts as curiosity becomes:
👉 Confidence
👉 Clarity
👉 Connection
👉 Control over your own desires
What This Guide Unlocks
Understand the deeper emotional need for validation and how it shows up in intimacy.
Learn how to express what you want—clearly, safely, confidently.
Explore the interplay between giving and receiving praise, and why both can be equally powerful.
Build a foundation where vulnerability feels safe, not exposed.
Gain personal, real-world perspective that goes beyond surface-level explanations.
This is a
shame-free space.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel seen, desired, and affirmed.
In fact—when understood and expressed properly—this desire can become one of the most powerful ways to:
- Deepen intimacy
- Strengthen emotional connection
- Feel fully present in your own pleasure
From Ashlee
“I created the Ashlee Shares: the Praise Kink because I believe our desires should never be a source of silence or shame.
They should be understood. Explored. Owned.
This is about giving you the language, the clarity, and the confidence to step into that part of yourself—fully and unapologetically.”
Start understanding what you feel—and why it matters.
You don’t have to keep wondering.
You don’t have to keep questioning yourself.
Click below to explore the guide on Amazon and begin your journey into the power of praise.
Perfect for:
- Curious beginners
- Individuals exploring their desires privately
- Couples looking to deepen connection
- Anyone craving emotional and verbal intimacy
