Becoming Unscripted in a World of Limiting Rules

I’m a storyteller at heart, and  a truth-seeker deep within my soul.

I lose myself in fictional worlds, weaving their tales with words onto blank pages, breathing life into characters and crafting stories that linger.

But I am also a seeker of context, a lover of research, a compiler of narratives – all echoes of my past as a journalist in Barbados.

Ashlee Unscripted is where these parts of me converge.

It’s where I can be more.

You see, for too long, I felt confined by expectations, the unspoken rule to ‘choose a lane’: fiction author, blogger, or  journalist. 

It was exhausting trying to only allow one side of me to see the light, and felt as if I was choking the other sides of me to death.

 In the end, it was a lie. 

I never had to choose, I never had to stifle the other parts of me, rather I just needed to allow myself the creative space and grace to bring them together in ways that allowed harmony.

Here, in this space, on this corner of the internet, I reclaim my power, the freedom to be all that I am, all that I yearn to be. 

This space, therefore, is a reflection of that beautiful, messy and absolutely compelling  diversity.

This isn't about adhering to a niche; it's about the sheer joy of creation, of giving voice to the thoughts that stir within, the desires that burn and smolder, and the topics that ignite my curiosity. 

It's about allowing my very essence to infuse my content, making room for the full spectrum of my humanity.

And I want this space for you, too.

My deepest hope is that by sharing my own journey of the messy, often wild nature of navigating life, building a business and still creating worlds, I can inspire you to take that first, often terrifying, leap away from the scripts that have been written for you – by others, and even those by yourself that are no longer best serving you. 

Scripts that have kept you feeling separate from a life of genuine fulfillment, of joyous exploration and courageous strength building.

 I want to show you how navigating the inevitable ups and downs will ultimately reveal your strength, your capacity to achieve your desires, and yes, to even find joy in the process!

Let’s become unscripted together!

The belief at Ashlee Unscripted is that success, fulfillment, and happiness are not privileges to be earned, but the inherent order of existence. 

Self-expression, therefore, is not a luxury, but the very essence of a life well-lived.

Born from a lifelong yearning to live from my heart, openly and joyously, Ashlee Unscripted is my way of sharing this unfolding with those who also crave a life that truly invigorates and comforts them.

The idea of living your ‘best life’ has become a hollow cliché, tainted by the endless stream of influencers showcasing seemingly effortless, sun-drenched existences and for a long time, I really bought into that facade, believing I had to be living life wrong, since I couldn’t fit into that gilded existence.

But the truth is, striving for that manufactured ideal isn’t easy, and it certainly isn't universal. 

Your best life isn't a destination; it's about the messy, beautiful reality of right now.

It’s about savoring what you already possess, embracing who you truly are.

It's about turning inward, rediscovering the boundless capacity of your own heart, and creating a safe space for it to both give and receive love.

I am here to redefine ‘living my best life’ – on my own terms.

My mission is simple: to share my own experiences on this often-vulnerable journey, raw and unscripted, and to ignite a spark of confidence within you through my words.

Let me be honest, choosing this path,- this way of living, has demanded immense work of the emotional and mental variety and unwavering effort.

It involves ongoing introspection, cultivating awareness, practicing mindfulness, and prioritizing real emotional and physical self-care.

Through this process, I’ve gained much needed  insights into myself, my relationship with the world, and the stories I’ve internalized about how the world perceives me.

 I’ve learned the power of letting go, of placing my trust in something larger than myself, and most importantly, in the quiet wisdom of my own heart.

Healing is not a straight line. 

Staying true to yourself, aligned with your inner compass, can feel paradoxical, even terrifying at times.

Consider this your gentle warning.

Life isn’t a perpetual state of sunshine and rainbows. 

Instead, I see it as a rich tapestry woven with contrast, the very friction needed to help us sift through our experiences, discern our true desires and needs, and ultimately, to wield the power to craft our own narratives, guided by the deep connection between our hearts and minds.

It should be easy to simply be yourself, to fearlessly pursue your dreams, and to embrace happiness. 

Yet, we inhabit a world that often peddles a different story – a narrative of limitation, of having to relentlessly hustle for what you desire, of needing to earn what is already inherently yours, and of not fully trusting the quiet knowing within.

Let us collectively step away from that limiting script and reinvest in our truest selves.

Let us all become unscripted.

 Instead of forcing ourselves into predetermined boxes, let’s embrace the vastness of our potential, allowing ourselves the space to thrive, to bloom in unexpected ways, and to approach this world with unbridled curiosity.

Let us return to the fundamental act of trusting, embracing, and fiercely nurturing our own hearts.

Let’s walk hand in hand, creating a lifestyle that empowers us to shed the heavy chains of our perceived limitations, to feel safe and truly free as we navigate the unique and precious experiences of this life.

Hello again, I am Ashlee, please hold my hand and let’s explore together. 

Let’s go!